*** Love and Infatuation ***

In this world, there is a thing that exists at all no matter what happened and this what we called love. Love means a lot, there is one states that love is like a rosary that full of mystery, other states that love is like a river that flows everywhere, love is like a race, love is blind, love is a decision and so many other definitions about love. All these definitions are maybe right or wrong, it depends if he/she will going to put his/her mind of these definitions of love. In my own words, for me love is a feeling that everybody wants to feel. In the Bible, a definition of love that said to be the real definition of love. The definition can be found in the book of 1 Corinthians 3:4-7 and the verse said: " Love is patient, love is kind, it is not selfish, it does not boast, it not does not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight with evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes. Love never fail. " I knew that you were touched by these lovable words, of course, this words came from the Bible and all words from the Bible are truth because God is truth.

A hundred of thousand s of people saying that you cannot resist love. Once it came, you will be very happy and you can feel an excitement about it. Well, as of me, I do not know if I will agree to that or not because I have never felt to fell in love to someone aside of my parents and siblings. If I am not mistaken, what the people really mean of those words is to love someone with other person and as what I said, I do not have experience about that. Yes, I have crushes, I do admire someone or even groups of people.By the way, admiring someone does not mean that it is already lov because admiring someone is different from loving someone. If there is a word love, there is also a word that counterfeits of it and that is the word infatuation. The word infatuation is a word created by Satan. Actually, there are five differences between love and infatuation. The first difference is that infatuation is ruled by feelings but love is ruled by principle. This statement means that if you really love someone, you will imagine of a things that you think that is right and good to the both of you. For example, the one who you love is an unbeliever of God and you a believer then for sure you will have a conflict together in your married life. And I know you also want a partner in life that has faith in God, has fear in God. How can you build a happy family if God is not the center of your family, for sure your love will collapse suddenly. Another difference between love and infatuation is that infatuation is blind but love sees and examines. This statement is merely saying that if you love someone, you must look at the good things of your beloved and you see what she is doing is wrong or something against with the good but you did not just care about it, then, there is no longer called love anymore. Another definition is that infatuation is hurry but love takes time. If you really love someone, both of you must know and consider the right time for your love, the right time to spend your love with. A time that both of you are ready to take the responsibilities as a good boyfriend and girlfriend, a better husband and wife and a best parents to the future children. Fourth difference of love and infatuation is that infatuation is childish but love is mature. If you really love each other, a sense of responsible person must possess. Loving someone is a serious thing, if you are acting like a child, then, a mature and true will not be exist. That is the differences between love and and infatuation. It's up to you if you are going to put your faith in those matter but all I want to say is I do not care about those things because I am not yet ready for that kind of matter